We all have some sort of goals.
Sometimes we are overloaded by the HOW as the goals may seem to big.
With my fitness clients, they want the FIT right NOW! Sadly, it just doesn't work that way. It includes changing lifestyle habits - things that have been ingrained for many years!
It just takes time.
Here a good article on how to achieve what you want. It is business related, however I think a lot of the points could be used towards any goal.